It’s no secret that senior photos are big milestone, but you may not realize that some seniors are reluctant to start the process. No matter the reasons (like shyness or insecurity), some seniors don’t feel as enthusiastic as others to jump in front of the lens. I’ve seen every range of emotions in the seniors that I shoot, and I’ve learned some things over the years that can help parents of the more hesitant students.
Start with a honest conversation: Communication is key when it comes to addressing your senior’s reluctance. Take the time to sit down and have an open, non-judgmental conversation about their concerns and preferences regarding the photo session. Listen attentively to their perspective and validate their feelings about why they may not want photos. Understanding their hesitations can help you tailor the experience to make it more comfortable and enjoyable for them. It’s also important that you can respectfully communicate reasons that you may want them to do senior photos, without adding guilt or shame to the conversation.
Choose a setting that is important to them: If you do decide senior photos are right for you and your senior, consider allowing them to choose where they want to do the photos. Selecting a location that holds personal significance or reflects your senior’s interests can help alleviate some of their apprehension. Whether it’s a favorite park, urban street, or sports field, opting for a familiar and comfortable environment can make the photo session feel less daunting and more relaxed. Sometimes, when the seniors has more input and realizes that photos can utilize things like the football field, an art gallery or mall, or their new car, they become more excited about their session.
Aim for candid moments: Instead of solely relying on posed shots, I often incorporate candid moments into the photo session to make seniors feel more comfortable and relaxed. Encourage your senior to engage in activities they enjoy, whether it’s playing a musical instrument, reading a book, or practicing a sport. Capturing genuine, spontaneous moments can result in more authentic and meaningful photographs that reflect your senior’s personality and interests.
Keep it lighthearted and fun: Approach the photo session with a lighthearted and fun attitude, and don’t put too much pressure on your grad. Try to avoid talking about how much money the session costs, or that you want to get the “perfect” photo. Instead, encourage laughter, silliness, and spontaneity to help your senior feel more at ease in front of the camera. Remember, the goal is to capture genuine moments of joy and authenticity, so don’t be afraid to let loose and enjoy the process together. In fact, many seniors end up enjoying the bonding time with their parent during the planning time and their session! You just might be surprised.
Celebrate their many accomplishments: Remind your senior of the significance of this milestone and celebrate their achievements leading up to this moment. Encourage them to embrace this opportunity to commemorate their high school journey and look towards the future with optimism and excitement. By framing the photo session as a celebration of their accomplishments, you can help shift their perspective and make the experience feel more meaningful and worthwhile.
Ultimately, senior photos should be a reflection of your senior’s unique personality, passions, and achievements. By approaching the process with empathy, understanding, and a focus on creating a positive and enjoyable experience, you can help your reluctant graduate feel more confident and empowered as they step in front of the camera to capture this really important milestone.
